The Boundaries of Self-love.

What is a boundary? This is an energetic expression of unconditional love where by honouring your own self-respect, you are also assisting a fellow human being their growth to emotional freedom.

I recently had a situation come up for me today where a family member (family have the strongest emotional and energetic bonds with us for the purpose of soul growth), is going through depression and emotional suffering. Through their pain, they overstepped boundaries by energetically invading my personal space.

Love is expressed when every person honours their own and other’s personal space whilst harmoniously co-existing with one another. This is the paradox of us as human beings who come from the same creator yet are our own individual expressions of the same self.

To honour everyone’s boundaries is to listen to your intuition and honour what it tells you. If it’s not an unequivocal YES, then it’s a NO.

For the people-pleasers out there like myself, this can be a challenging thing to do. Because we are afraid to say no and disappoint another in order to feel accepted. You will know a persons true capacity to love through their interaction with you even if you say NO to them. Because if they still accept you even if you say NO, it means they will love you regardless of your words or actions. That is the truest expression of LOVE.

“In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.”
Lord Buddha.

 

 

 

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